The cards you never want to make…

Last week we heard on Tuesday that the wife of one of Mr FD’s oldest friends had been diagnosed with aggressive liver cancer. On Thursday evening we heard that she had died. What can one say or do in a situation like that?

We had only re-made contact with H – the friend – a few years back, and so had only met T a handful of times, but she was lovely: down to earth, fun, and kind hearted. We had loked forward to getting to know her better, but it was not to be.

On Saturday I made two condolence cards (as always, click on the photos to get a better view). This was my first effort:

I quite like this one – although the gel glue I used wasn’t my usual brand, and it didn’t stick as well, leaving some bumps and marks. The flowered paper was from the front of a free magazine (which I snaffled purely for the front cover!) and the butterfly was die-cut from some shiny blue wrapping paper. But I wasn’t happy with it. Partly because of the glue, but partly because it seemed a bit “meh”. And T wasn’t “meh”.

So I tried again

I chose daffodils, as both T and H are Welsh. I much preferred this one – using paper from a co-ordinated paper pad (from Noz) and yellow ribbon (Noz) The stick-on gold is also from either Noz or another discount store! I also used my usual glue, so there was no glue-related complaints!

As you can see, I used the same sentiment in both – I found it on t’internet and thought it was eminently suitable.

Although Mr FD iniatially chose the first card, when I pointed out the daffodils (he’s not always that observant about fine details) he changed his mind!

While I wonder if the second is a bit too brightly coloured, I still prefer it. What do you think?

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5 thoughts on “The cards you never want to make…

  1. I’m sorry to read of your friend’s death. It’s often difficult to decide which card to send, but the fact that you have taken the time to design and make a card will speak volumes to the recipient. I prefer the blue one because I like butterflies and blue. However, if the daffodils are significant on a personal level then that one would be better as butterflies are often on such cards. I like them both and I am sure anyone would be glad to receive either.

  2. I’m so sorry to read about your friend. I think both cards are fantastic and a hand-made card will be appreciated either way. I actually like the colour on the second one – it’s nice to add a bit of brightness and fits well with the message of courage/hope for the future.

  3. Wow, that was horribly sudden. Probably some mercy in not dragging it out, but devastating still. I’m all for bringing in some brightness in this trying time; card #2 for me!

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